Tuesday 18 February 2014

Don’t Forget Your Friends - in soap, family matters, but it’s good to have friends too

The arrival of new families has been in the soap-related news recently, first with the appearance of the extended Carter family in EastEnders, then with the announcement that Coronation Street is soon to get its first Muslim family in the show’s history.

Traditionally, family has always been at the heart of soap stories (and a lot of other TV drama too – the wonderful Game of Thrones is all about rival families, albeit on a larger scale and with fancier costumes than you’ll find in most soaps) and it’s not difficult to understand why; familial relationships provide the potential for conflict that many other relationships don’t as they are build on the most powerful bonds.

And conflict is the lifeblood of drama; it fuels the engine that drives drama. Hence the reason for the central role of families and family life in soap opera set-ups and stories.

But as we all know, it’s good to have friends. And this is as much true in drama as it is in life. TV soap writers and producers have understood this from the earliest days of the genre: think of Ena Sharples gossiping with Minnie Caldwell and Martha Longhurst in the snug of the Rovers Return in only the second episode of Coronation Street.

For a start, where do you go when you need to talk to someone about the problems you’re having with your family (or your lover, or your enemy)? You go to a friend. Everybody needs a trusted confidant, someone to spill your deep, dark thoughts and feelings to, and soap characters are no different.

This can actually be pretty handy if you’re a soap writer and need to let the audience in on a troubled character’s emotional turmoil; you could have them muttering to themselves about the desire to murder a treacherous sibling or turning to camera to do the same, but having them tell a friend is ultimately more believable and satisfactory.

Another thing a focus on friendship offers is relief from the very conflict that’s needed to drive stories. It’s good to be able to pull back from the problems, arguments and strife and experience a little lightness, warmth and humour. That’s why it’s healthy to spend time in Streetcars with Lloyd, Steve and Eileen, now we’re fretting about Roy’s whereabouts, just like it was good to hang out with Minty and Garry in the Arches when there was a lot of yelling going on in the Queen Vic.

So friends can offer the promise of positivity amid the darkness of a dramatic life; they can back you up in the midst of family failings, like Fatboy being there for Tamwar in EastEnders just now (or Bronn being there for Tyrion in Game of Thrones for that matter) and they can also help save you from yourself, as Bob Adams did with his hapless pal Deek Henderson in one my episodes of BBC One Scotland’s River City, when Deek spiralled out of control and into a dark place after the death of his mother.

But because of the very fact that characters do open up to their friends and trust them with their innermost secrets, this can lead to the possibility of that trust being broken. Which is great for creating dramatic tension: we might need to unburden ourselves to a pal but what might they do with those dark secrets in the future? Can we trust them? Will they betray us?

And what if the confidant learns something they didn’t want to hear, that a friend has done something illegal perhaps? The moral dilemma that this kind of situation generates is often the thing that really grabs an audience and pulls them into the drama; we lean forward in our seats as we experience the character’s emotional and ethical struggle for ourselves.

Perhaps one of the finest examples of this kind of moral struggle happened when a much-loved soap character was asked to do something illegal and against her every belief and principle for her closest friend. We surely all remember the trauma experienced by Dot when Ethel, suffering from cancer, asked her to assist in her death. This was a friendship so important, so solidly build on love and trust, that Dot’s steadfast religious beliefs had to buckle under the strain of the request. And it made great viewing.

So it’s clear that significant friendships, like family relationships, are vital in drama, especially soap.

It’s great that the Carter family have been such a successful addition to EastEnders; I just hope that we see each of them develop strong bonds outside of the family over the coming months. This has already started to an extent, with Johnny’s budding friendship with Whitney (now all that initial confusion has been dealt with!) and the tentative bond developing between Linda and Sharon – something that’s bound to bring them as much strife as joy.


As the rest of Kal Nazir’s family hasn’t appeared yet, it’s too early to say how the Coronation Street story team will handle their friendships. But, for me, it’s a good sign that the introduction of this new family has started not with them arriving en masse, but with Kal and his growing bond with Dev. But who knows where this new friendship will take the pair, especially as they have begun to mix it with business? We can only keep watching to find out.